Balancing Between Young Children and Personal Lives

With young children comes great joy and love as well as great responsibility. There is no doubt that parenthood on its own is a full-time job! Looking after your little loved ones, taking care of their every little need, and responding to their every little action is said to be one of the most fulfilling sentiments. Despite that, it is important to also acknowledge that raising young children has its own pressures. You might be balancing a career, relationship, housework, and many other tasks at the same time. So, at what point do you step back and give time to yourself and your partner? Does getting a babysitter to look after your kids while you head out for a nice dinner with your friends or partner mean that you are no longer the ‘best parent’?

Contrary to the stigma around it, hiring a babysitter or nanny for some additional help can prove to be beneficial not only for new parents but also for the children themselves too. The right babysitter can help your child form bonds, discover new interests, and develop healthy playtime routines. Spending time with yourself or other loved ones and continuing to establish your social life will help relieve stress, stay calm, and staying positive even on those sleepless nights.

So now you might be wondering – that’s great, but how do I find the right babysitter? Always make sure you meet with your candidates in person, even more than once, and have an open conversation on what your expectations are. Discuss their qualifications and experience and make sure it aligns with your requirements. If your preferred babysitter falls under the youth category, making sure they have their Babysitter’s Certification can help assure they have all the necessary skills and information to look after a child. Make sure to not leave them alone with your child right away. Introduce them to your child and spend some time together to bridge any communication gaps and allow your child to get comfortable around them as well. Start off by spending short periods of time away from your child in the care of their babysitter and slowly you may increase the durations. When you come home from your outing, be sure to check in with your children and have them share any feedback or concerns they might have.

It is important to keep a balance in all aspects of life and this is simply one of them. Do not hesitate to explore childcare-giving options to take some time to yourself. With proper due diligence, you and your family can continue to share precious time and moments collectively and individually.